I am ugly and i need help...?

Question

I am 12 years old and 5 foot 1 inch, and Im 150 pounds....First of all, my hair is really curly, and i hate it, because I can never never leave it down. Next, my face, it doesnt have too many pimples but my eye brows are really dark and bushy, it makes me have a unibrow. Next my body, i am very overweight and its annoying and ugly. Finnally my fasion, i dont look good in any thing, and im fat so some things dont fit, pleaseeeee help im really need it.

Answer 1

It sounds like you should go on a diet first off. There is nothing more cute than a shorter girl with a tiny figure.



Curly hair: you can use a flat iron. You can also use friz ease and just work with the curl. Try highlights.



Eyebrows: Pluck them every morning. Find a shape you really like and maintain it. Unibrow is gross.



Fashion: Once you go on a diet and make yourself less harsh fashion should be easy. It is amazing how good clothes look on a well toned bod.



I hope this helps. I was akward as a young teen, and it would have been nice to have some helpful tips.

Answer 2

this is a good start. to fix a problem to first thing to do is admit you have one.



"my hair is really curly, and i hate it, because I can never never leave it down." - i have friends who have wonderful curly hair. is the problem that it is frizzy? try hair spray or a curling shampoo. or ask the yahoo answers community what has worked best for them



"Next, my face, it doesnt have too many pimples but my eye brows are really dark and bushy, it makes me have a unibrow."- there are many solutions to this eyebrow problem. Tweezers, a salon professional help, ect. again i dont have much experience in this area so i would ask



"Next my body, i am very overweight and its annoying and ugly."- WORKOUT. do at least 5 hours of exercise a week. start running or join a sport. take dance classes or workout on your own every day. pick a goal weight and push yourself to make it. this isnt going to be easy but with some self-determination it uis possible. dont give up or start starving yourself (this will cause more problems in the long run that may not be able to be fixed)



"Finnally my fasion, i dont look good in any thing, and im fat so some things dont fit, pleaseeeee help im really need it."- look above.... and dont worry everyone is self conscious. when i was your age I hated all my clothing. now that i am older i have learned/created my own style and am happy to wear the clothing in my closet.



times may seem tough and you may feel ugly but you and I are not fully grown. you are going to change a lot in the next 8 years. and when you are finally 20 you will look back and laugh at your old self. GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

First don't say that about your self!!

and second I'm on spring break so i don't know if you are but if you are it's a good way to get a fresh start, Go to the mall and see if you can't have your eye brows done, then ask your mom for some proactive it works great, then try going on a diet or join a gym take walks join a sport great way to lose weight and rack of some pimples. Then for clothes try asking for help to see what best fits your body shape. Also if your very pale going tanning it gets rid of pimples and a tan looks great on anyone! I have curly hair too so don't worry I'm here for ya! get it cut and relaxed if you hate it SO much i use gel and I actually like my curly hair sometimes. if you get it relaxed and straight forever then i would go with something with layers and a nice face frame with some bangs you might even want to dye it.

good luck! (:

Answer 4

your twelve and are hitting puberty GET OVER it!

K hair: buy a decent straightener, they have one for almost all budgets, but also use thermal spray to protect ur hair

Face: pimples, see a dermatologist and cleanse, tone etc. night and day

Eyebrows, Get eyebrow trimming scissors, eyebrow shapers (like shavers one bladed made for eyebrows), and eyebrow brush and clean em up, i do it to keep up inexpensively



Body: stop layin around watchin the hills and the office eatin chips and drinkin soda and get up and go for a walk or a run and actually TRY in P.E. or else say goodbyr to the dream of 00 jeans 4eva

Fashion open a 17 and teen vogue and DO NAWT shop at wal mart

17 has special fashion pages for curvier girls



AnD MOST of ALL GET some self esteem dear child, if u dont start with that u will ALWAYS feel fat even when ur 100 lbs or less!!!!



O and seventeen helps you alot to be happy with your looks, and teaches you some good workouts and recipes for good healthy stuff

Answer 5

i hope your plan works



oh ya and i say never change just get better



so if you're a person... and this is what i mean by that



say you're big and you don't wanna be unhealthy and do things unnaturally to lose weight. don't



strenthen what belief you do have. or make what you believe in solid



if you think it's wrong to do that stuff then don't do it



be better and being the person you were made. or something



this has a lot of kinks but whatever. have a nice day

Answer 6

try to go on a little diet even small changes will make a big difference

try to exercise a little bit

get a hair straightener or try to tame your curls ( the hair product call bumble and bumble works really well!! and its available at cvs now too)



go to a salon and get your eyebrows waxed

it makes a HUGE difference if you have bushy eyebrows



as for the acne go to the drugstore and get a cleanser for acne and some acne medication! make sure you USE it though!! good luck









answer my question



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you could also try proactive

Answer 7

Holly cow.

You are 5'1' and 150 pounds?



Sweety, not only are you over weight but you are in a danger zone.

I really don't mean this to be mean, but you really need some help. These unhealthy habits can kill you, and not just in the long run.

Answer 8

ok first of all. you're 12 years old .... you shouldn't be looking in a mirror you should be playing games and having fun =)

and let me try and help you out :::

-your height is okay (not to tall not to short)

-my hair is really curly too but i make it look elegant and sometimes put a bow on the bottom (like rose from titanic)

my hair and i think urs looks like:

http://www.geocities.com/hollywood/theater/3058/r2.jpg

-if you're really insecure about your eyebrows get them plucked or fixed and then dye it

-so what if you're overweight your still growing my aunt was overweight too but know she's a beautiful sexy woman with amazing curves and perfect face features

-dont wear jeans wear like sweatpants (i wear them and people think i look cute in them) wear babydoll shirts like this:

http://www.styleattractions.com/images/Babydoll%20-%20White.jpg

http://cn1.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/db/1/AAAAAsQ2GFcAAAAAANsZDA.jpg

i know your abit insecure right now but you need to be confident (dont be cocky) as you grow older people are gonna try to break you down and you can't let them control you or tell you who you are

i think your a beautiful young girl just waiting to be blossomed

please dont worry now just enjoy life as it is =)

Answer 9

hair- CHI straightner works wonders and you can do more than straighten



face- go to a drug store and see what they reccomend



Eyebrows- since your new to this, go to a salon and wax, or get mom or someone who has experience fix'em



Body- run around a feild everyday for 1 hour do ab workouts bicep tricep excersises etc



fashion- when your done everything above, whatever looks good on you wear it :)

Answer 10

well first get some weight watches that will help you loose weight.

next go to the salon and have them doing something with your hair and ask them to wax your eyebrows.

than go to a really nice store like walmart or target and buy some clothes that fit you.

Answer 11

okay, well first of all, go out and but a hair straightener.

but a good one too, ot a 30 $ one from wal-mart or anything.

you could ask your doctor, and theyll give you some good acne cleansing serum thing.

pluck your eyebrows ! do them yourself, and it doesnt cost TOO much do get someone else to do them for you.

work out, eat right, im sure your fashion sense will come to you.

GOOD LUCK !

Answer 12

1 make-up

#2 get eyebrows done from a beauty parlor

#3 sign up for a gym

#4 go to urban decay, american apparel, etc and buy clothes there



-problem solved

Answer 13

Liz, you need to lose weight NOW, if you don't do it now you'll probably regret it in the future. exercise, join a gym, or go running outside for 20 minutes a day. join a dance or fitness class. please do at least ONE of these things. secondly, eat a balanced diet: no more cookies, no more cakes and no chips. eat more fruit, have an apple or orange a day and remember to drink loads to detox your system. ask your mum to get you on a good diet to lose some weight, she should know what you should be eating to get thinner. don't starve yourself: it will make you put on more weight. eat breakfast, lunch and dinner. for breakfast have a grapefruit, for lunch have some fish or chicken in a salad. for dinner have some spaghetti or pasta with tomato. if you follow this routine of exercising and eating healthy then you'll lose weight, and your skin and eyes will look lovely and glowing! exercize with your mum- go for a run with her or something, or go cycling with her. as for your eyebrows: ask your mom to take you to get your eyebrows shaped and waxed at a salon or beauticians because you're feeling self-consious about them. here are some more eating tips for losing weight:



Replace fizzy drinks and fruit cordials with water.





Swap whole milk for semi-skimmed, or semi-skimmed for skimmed.





Eat less lunch than usual. For example, make your own sandwich and limit the use of margarine/butter and full-fat mayonnaise (store-bought sandwiches often contain both).





Stop taking sugar in tea and coffee.





Have smaller portions of the food you enjoy.





Avoid having a second helping at dinner.





Cut out unhealthy treats such as confectionary, sugary biscuits and crisps between meals.



if you don't like water then drink fruit juice.



what to do about your curly hair: http://www.bbc.co.uk/switch/slink/fashion/index.shtml?page=hair&sub=curly



curly hair doesn't have to look bad, i really like this style:



http://www.curly-hair-styles-magazine.com/curly-hair-celebrity-styles-03.html



you could ask your mom to highlight your hair blonde for you, my mum used to do that with my hair when i was 12 and was feeling insecure, and it gave me an instant confidence boost! you can get highlighting kits and dyes from most drugstores.



this girl is pretty and she also has curly hair:



http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p290/beautifulluna10/Riley_Keough_1712_2.jpg



take inspiration from the links i've given you. ask your mum if you can borrow her eyeliner and eyeshadows! it will give you alot of confidence: make-up can work miracles! just remember to always at least TRY to lose weight. i may be naturally skinny but i've known people who are overweight, and they managed to lose the weight with enough encouragement, YOU CAN DO IT. :D

Answer 14

okay get cover up, eye liner, straighten your hair if you don't like curls, pluck and get waxed, work out, see a nutritionist, go to forever 21, great fashion, good sizes for everyone, AND be confident, im sure your beautiful!! be happy looks arent everything!!

Answer 15

ask your mom if she could give you a makeover:) and dont be sad..it brings your confidence down...and thats not good:(

dont worry about your weight...if you want you could work out a little .like walk the dog or something. Just be happy the way you are. forget about what people say and dont let them bring you down:))

Answer 16

ha, you sound like me last year.

i'm 13 now and i've learned to live with how i look and yeah, i still don't really like my appearance but i know that the people i love don't care how i look, and love me for me.



if it's really bothering you, buy some straighteners, get some tweezers and go to a gym.

Answer 17

Get your hair chemically relaxed or straightened. And tweeze your eyebrows, wax them, or get them threaded. Start exercising and you will lose weight. You will look nicer. Be more confident!

Answer 18

Ah well...it sounds like there is'nt a lot we can do...sounds like you've given up already

Answer 19

complain to your mother that you are unhappy

and get plastic surgery