my 13yr son wants to be a girl?

Question

My son ahs always been very femmine loking and acting and such a mommies boy. I have always tried to support and love him. I have let him wear his hair long and help him curl it, also help him with makeup and nailpolish. I need advice on helping him with his looks and clothes and
also what to do to help him make his transition to female. iIknow his hormones will be kicking in before long and he will start showing signs of being a boy which he hates. Please stay possitive with your comments

Answer 1

It's great your so supportive, but he will probably end up being gay ( which there is nothing wrong with that), but while he is still young try to save him from reticule and get some boy clothes and dont put makeup on him. This may just be a stage, but if it's not then try to support him in every way ( which you are already doing). Try to stay as far away as possible from surgery ( it can be very costly). Also there was a boy who thinks he was really supposed to be a girl on Americas Next Top model ( who didn't have surgery).

Good Luck and God bless you!!!

Answer 2

apparently you also have a 16 and 8 year old son, oh and a boyfriend who all act the same.



too bad its just the fact that you are a boy who cant own up and ask the q's for himself.



i was excited that someone going through this could be so positive and amazing, and then i realized you were a fake.



just look at your previous q's/

Answer 3

I think its great that you are so supportive!



(to the other answer, well he may be gay, but not necessarily, being transgendered isn't always gay too)



well if you are really serious, and he is really serious about this you could look into getting hormones for him, im not sure where you get them, so be sure to do some research about that.



you can also put him in dresses and skirts, that way his penis will not show and he will feel even more like a girl, maybe for now you could give him a bra and stuff it a little. have fun with him..or maybe I should say her? well anyway do fun girls stuff, makeovers! You may also want to transition to a femalee name too



good luck, its great that you are so open!



seriously people? 5 thumbs down? if her son identified as a femal, it doesn't mean hes a freak, hes just in the wrong body, theres no point in making him suffer, quit being afraid of the unknown.

Answer 4

I think you are ok with him being gay and the make up because you as a lesbian. You are probably proud.... Let me stop because it's too much. Your kid is so young and you are not helping you are pushing him

Answer 5

You should take your child to the doctor as soon as possible. It sound like he is not gay, but has gender identity disorder.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity_disorder



It's good that you're willing to help your child but you can not help him alone.Depression is a big risk that comes with this disorder, and depression ups the risk for the person using drugs,alcohol and suicide.

Answer 6

stop encouraging it, it sounds like you just wanted a girl instead of a boy so now your gonna curl his hair and transition him to a female! did you know you might end up ruining his life, let him make his own decisions don't encourage it he might end up hating you 4 the rest of his life get him a girl friend and buy him some nice man clothing tell the kids dad to straighten him out or buy him a stripper do something fast

Answer 7

Im glad you are supportive of him! Well there is a whole makeup world on youtube he can check out, Allure and other magazines are great for him learning about makeup and fashion.

Answer 8

im sorry but im one of those people not mature enough to answer this question. you probly dont want to hear my answer to this, but it is good that you support him in whatever he chooses

Answer 9

Be supportive!

Answer 10

You need to find help somewhere other than yahoo answers, the people here in general don't strike me as mature enough to handle a topic like this.

Answer 11

....uh



I wish I could say something positive, but that boy is gonna end up beaten up or raped...you should not be encouraging this kind of behavior. Both you and your son need to seek mental help.

Answer 12

Contact your family physician and also a counselor to help him. if he is going to at some point have surgery to become a femal he will need to speak with them.

Answer 13

and i thought i had problems



damn he needs a sex change

Answer 14

Let him be the way he wants to be....guide him with what he wants to do...

Answer 15

Thread, pluck or wax his eyebrows, wax his upper lip, wear lipgloss, eyeliner, mascara, etc.

Answer 16

why are you helping him? he should want to be a boy. is he also gay?

Answer 17

He is lucky you help him lol

Answer 18

he's probably gay, my little brother used to do that and he's gay (:

nothing wrong with being gay. be supportive!

Answer 19

hahahahahhahahahahah. that sucks.