I don't get why im like this lately, it keeps getting worse.?

Question

Over the past month, my self esteem has gone waaaaaay down. I have never felt soo low of myself. I can't even look at my self in the mirror anymore and I really just don't think i am attractive. On the otherhand last year, i was happy with myself and I did think i was pretty and boys liked me. I don't like being in pictures anymore because I think i look bad in most of them. I'd have to admit though, I was always a bit of an insecure girl, but it keeps getting worse. The thing is people tell me im pretty allll the time. I feel like i keep getting uglier and i don't think im just seeing things. Or i could be just seeing what everyone else isn't seeing. No boys ever really approach me at school or anything either. I asked my sister why i don't get any boyfriends and she told me there intimidated by me, which i don't see but okay. I sleeep a lot now, i don't like going out as much. I don't know what to do, Im just not happy anymore. And nothing is getting betterr. Im becoming obsessed with my appearance. I look at pictures of myself and i think i look so ugly in most of them. i hate this, and don't want to be this way anymore. I just want to be happy with the way i look.

btw, this is me.


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Answer 1

your pretty.. everyone feels that way. sometimes, especially when there single. just dont let it get in the way with your life.



I think that you feel that way cause everyone has boyfriend and you dont.. right? it sounds like your one of those single girls that just want a boyfriend but feel like there not attractive enough to have one.



you are attractive you just got to flirt more and be more outgoing. Stop being so hard on yourself.

Answer 2

Believe me, girl, you're gorgeous. But weird enough, that happened to me too. What i did was spend more time on myself instead of what other people thought. I mean, teenage boys aren't even worth worrying about because they ARE too intimidated to ask you out. They see you as an unapproachable thing because you ARE very beautiful and if you re a great person, they'll often go for the average, more promiscuous ones. It's stupid i know, but dont worry about boys. Take some time off of school maybe and get out and try creating things and making new experiances for yourself to see if it's your environment that's bringing you down. Go for a shopping trip just by yourself and feel like a moviestar. Eat good foods! i cant stress that enough, it balances your hormones, and take vitamins (vitamin B's and D's). Go see a natropath and get some special, custom vitamins to keep your mood up. Try getting regular physical activity (Yoga does wonders for your body, mind and self-esteem) Once you develope an indipendance for yourself you start to see just how freakin' awesome you really are. I mean, you're the only person you are with for the rest of your life, so you might as well like yourself.

Answer 3

Honestly, I think you're doing this to get attention.

But if you're not, you really shouldn't be sonsulting a bunch of loser teens, and bored old geezers for advice on this. If you're depressed go see your doctor and get some anti-depressants. Also, the best thing for you would to be go to a drug store, buy a pint of ice cream and go to your best friends house and have a movie night with her. Or, you could call some guy friends' over (If they have girlfriends invite them too), make yourself up with makeup and a cute outfit, and have a bonfire in the backyard or walk around town, just make sure you're having fun. There's nothing wrong with how you look, honestly. You're gorgeous

Answer 4

I used to have the same problem too. I kept asking my friends what was wrong with me and they kept complimenting me, and it all seemed too cheezy. I just felt self consious, and ugly.

Just trust yourself and it is really important to just look on the inside.

Make a list of all of the great things about your physical appearance, and it might make you feel better. NO one is perfect, because it isn't really defined. Everyone is unique, and what you think is ugly, the enttire would could thing is amazing.

Answer 5

You have movie star good looks girl...I can't believe you don't have guys asking you out right and left, but assuming what you say is the truth all I can suggest is just relax and let it happen naturally, don't try to force it ya know?? But you are extremely pretty/hot/gorgeous so trust me it will happen.

Answer 6

You sure don't seem to not be able to look at yourself in the mirror, since you're taking a picture of yourself....looking in the mirror.





Nice way to go about trolling though kudos

Answer 7

woah woah woah!!!

are you looking at the same person as me girl?

you are an absolute stunner!

you should have boys jumping at you from everywhere!!!!!

dont doubt yourself, you are a very pretty girl, and sounds like you are a great person too!!! :)

Answer 8

You a very pretty! You self esteem should not be defined by you looks tho, only your actions.





me?

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Answer 9

ur a teen! all girls (including me) have there up and downs! it part of teen/GIRLHOOD!! YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL! I LOVE UR HAIR CUT! FOR UR BOYS PROBLEM WHY NOT APROACH THEM!?!?!??! NEVER EVER LOOK DOWN ON URSELF! BE THE REAL U! LOVE WHO U R! GO AND CATCH UR DREAMS!

Answer 10

ugly? whaaat?



i would go out on a date with you. does that make you feel better?

Answer 11

u've already asked this. you're pretty. stop fishing for compliments

Answer 12

you look sooo good!

Answer 13

i love your haair!!!

Answer 14

your gorgeous(: