I hate being the ugly sister!?

Question

Idk I've just been feeling really down lately because of my appearance. I try and tell myself that looks don't matter, but the fact is that they kind of do. I have been called ugly before and 'the ugly sister' because my younger sister is gorgeous and looks like shes older than me(She's 14 I'm 16) It's just hard because we hang out a lot and guys will come up to her and flirt with her or give her their number but it's always like I'm invisible and she's the shy one not me. I don't want it to seem like my sis is mean or anything though cuz she's really nice and says things like 'oh your prettier than me' but I can tell we both know it isn't true.
Sorry for the rampage. I just want to know if I'm really as ugly as I feel and what I can do to make myself look better.

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Answer 1

whaat well if your cute your sister must be like bomb as fuhhhh k haha

Answer 2

you know what? in the end its personality that really matters! Ive gone through this also, show them who you are! being outgoing is a great confidence booster. you should try spoiling yourself, paint your nails get a sundress or a new haircut! something thats just plain girly that can make you feel prettier! im a tomboy, ive gotten more than a few ugly comments! I try to be very outgoing so people want to come talk to ME no matter what i look like. I wanted to feel confident so i had a close friend who new alot about make up to show me what would work for me (try not to be a cake face, the natural look is more appealing lol) and i went to a hairsalon and asked them to cut it in a way that suited me! every now and then i paint my nails and in my opinion it shows people i take care of myself. i bet you're gorgeous, so dont let yourself be compared to your sister! I dont know what you look like or if your girly or a tomboy but i really hope this helped even a tiny bit! And PLEASE dont let yourself be called the ugly sister! never tell yourself that you are ugly. look in the mirror every day before you go to school and tell yourself what looks good today like "hmmm my hair looks nice today", or "wow i love this outfit"! one last thing, in the end, people arent going to remember if you were pretty or not, just if you were a great person =) oh i just saw the link the pic of you (oops lol) my god girl you are pretty! i dont see why and dumb person would call you ugly!

Answer 3

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I hate being the ugly sister!?

Idk I've just been feeling really down lately because of my appearance. I try and tell myself that looks don't matter, but the fact is that they kind of do. I have been called ugly before and 'the ugly sister' because my younger sister is gorgeous and looks like shes older than...

Answer 4

Your actually pretty :)

But if you want to look totally gorgeous try getting a haircut with front bangs, and keep the rest of the hair the same length.



Then do the total makeup thing. Coverup, foundation, eyeliner, a light eyeshadow (brown/gold), mascara. And then pluck your eyebrows and define them with an eyebrow pencil. Now if you dont want to go through all of that... :P Dont worry! You are still really pretty and dont compare yourself to your sister.

Answer 5

i agree with you. All my friends think my older sister is cuter and pretty than me. I personally dont see it. Shes 18 im 16. I've learned to ignore it because at the end of the day you have something unique about you that no one else has not even your sister.

Answer 6

Oh my God you're not ugly at all !!



you're soo adorable ! I think it's something mental that makes you feel like the "ugly sister" .. dont let these thoughts haunt you and be confident and be the "hot sisters" together



YOU ARE PRETTY !

Answer 7

Your pretty hot, Just smile more & show your teeth. Try to open up a bit around your friends & people. Be easy going & fun to be around. Guys will totally be down for that. Don't worry too much about your sister. Be happy.

Answer 8

look, your really pretty, u dont look acne prone, overweight, or have some weird or out of proportioned features.Look be happy for what youve got, sure it could always be better, but also a whole lot worse. As for the sister situation, i used to feel the same way as you (my sis is the older one tho) but eventually i grew into my looks and am very comfortable and happywith my appearance now. Just give it time, and im sure itl be fine ;)

Answer 9

if you're the ugly sister she must be jaw-droppingly gorgeous since you are quite pretty, maybe 7-8/10?



prob you are insecure, i know heaps of guys who'd go out with you in a heartbeat.

Answer 10

Your not ugly



But if you really want to change your appearance you could try dying your hair changing clothing style doing different styles of makeup.

Answer 11

Your sister must be one hell of a good sort if you think your ugly...Actually you are very pretty.

Answer 12

You are nowhere near the vicinity of ugly. Stop worrying.

Answer 13

You're not ugly. If you want to look different try a new hairstyle- try not to make it look so puffy.

Answer 14

You look like you're a cute girl, you just need some confidence.

Answer 15

u are pretty,

if u are really down, buy some makeup and get a nice haircut

but honestly to make a point, you dont need any of that, just be outgoing

Answer 16

You are gorgeous, i know how you feel, always getting compared with the sister! Don't feel down

Answer 17

Man, stop fishing for compliments. You're pretty and you know it. If people over look you for your sister, stop hanging out with her! Maybe she's just more approachable.

Answer 18

you aren't ugly. really.

:D seriously come on, you ARE NOT ugly

cheer up!

Answer 19

OMG!!! You're SO pretty!!!!!! I'm a girl not a lesbian, but trust me you are gorgeous. I honestly do not know why you would even doubt yourself!!!

Answer 20

What?! No! You're really pretty. It's all about confidence.

:)

Answer 21

You're really pretty . alittle lip gloss , eyeliner , and blush will be perfect. look up scene hairstyles and see if you like them . you have the perect face for it

Answer 22

Your a total hottie no need to worry about anything

Answer 23

nahh

your not ugly one bit

you're actually pretty

Answer 24

You are not ugly at all!

Answer 25

yeah your not ugly, or even close to it!

so dont be down on yourself.

have confidence :)

Answer 26

you are NOT ugly! what does ur sis look like?

Answer 27

LOL you're not ugly retard. What's your sister look like?

Answer 28

you're not ugly at all...

Answer 29

You know damn well you're nowhere near ugly, girl.

Answer 30

what? i think you look cute



i mean the pic is kinda boring, and you look sad...but you have nice features

Answer 31

WHAT?! Your pretty! love ur lips and hair!

confidence is key(:

xoxo

Answer 32

let's see ur sister

Answer 33

you are so not ugly.

Answer 34

your very cute dont feel down :)

Answer 35

lol your hot, stop stressin :P



(guy btw)

Answer 36

ur really pretty. u make me feel ugly. lolz.

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Answer 37

WHAT THE HELL.

YOU ARE FREAKING PRETTY.