Lying Boyfriend + Bad Body Image = Confused Girl (Help Please)?

Question

Hi
Well, my problem is basically that my boyfriend (5 years now) for some reason refuses to answer my questions regarding how I look. He continually says I'm beautiful or I look fine... but the problem is that he says this no matter what i look like. So I'm coming here... to yahoo...
I am 19 years old, I am a chubby girl (not fat, but not thin) and my build is average height, small hips and an out of proportion bust (I have a 47" chest and a 31" waist). My boyfriend prefers very very busty women, so this is a good thing. But.. I dont feel comfortable with myself and want to lose weight. I'm terrified that I'm going to lose my chest... even if I end up as a DD or DDD cup Im afraid he wont find that part of me attractive anymore. So basically, my question is : do I lose the weight, and possibly my chest? Do I stay as I am but feel like crap? Or do I lose the weight and get implants back up to the size I am? Or any other suggestions. Please help :)

Answer 1

You have a boyfriend (long term)and a decent figure. Why can't you be happy with that? He seems to be.

Peace.

Answer 2

I am about the same size except the chect part and we both have the same problem with loosing weight. Guys love secure outgoing, independent women. (we have been together for 4 years) but this year im loosing 25 pounds - thats right - FOR ME. When i feel sexy he feels more attracted to me and there is nothing sexier than a woman who is confident.

Im tired of having a "fat ***" and a chubby tummy. Id rather have a flat tummy and then work on my ***.

A guy loves you for who you are - even if I wear a push up bra(shhhh!) he doesnt know the difference.

Answer 3

if i were you i would lose the weight... you're chest shouldn't go down too much or at all... and if he does then he needs to accept that...

Answer 4

Look girl you aren't the problem he is do what u feel is right if he don't like it it is his loss

Answer 5

Don't worry about the bf, if he doesn't like it, he's an a**hole and doesn't deserve you anyway.